Yesterday I received an email from an acquaintance... i found it queer as we had not met or contact for at least 5yrs! She sent this email to me & another fren whom we got to know each other in some activities... In her originating email, she asked the polite 'how r u?' She wrote, "just curious to know if any of you have changed to Mrs.????" (Yes! her sentence ended wif 4 Q marks!) Then, she mentioned another gal got married etc.... and asked if i still in xx Co.
Being polite, I replied her email (abit skeptical wat is this fellow up to) that we r ok lah & told her i left xx Co. After awhile, her 2nd email popped up in my mailbox & still veri determined to know my status! She said, "Anyway, are u dating someone or married?" Sei, i duno whether to laugh or wat leh....how come this woman so weird? Btw, she's way older than me, i duno her exact age thou'.
After thinking awhile, I decided to use my 'suan-ing' power! I wrote back, ''Hey! How come so keen in my status? u have guys to intro huh? haha! how abt urself leh?'' This time round, it took her longer to revert... Her reply made me burst into laughter! In her 3rd reply, she wrote, ''sometimes i haven't met up wif frens for mths, then one fine day she is getting married. Veri sudden. Me not attached. Think must 'lay long' :( '' (note: her sad emoticon)
Now, i guess this acquaintance must be super unbalanced & suffer from low self-esteem. In my final response to her, I can't help but told her off.... ''if that is ur so-call true fren, will inform that she's getting married! If not, then dun bother lor.... Most importantly, be happily single...''
After this, i din see any further emails lo! Honestly, it's not that bad to be a single, cos it's how u decide to live your life to the fullest....there's many things that one can do. Maybe my 人缘还不错, so i'm blessed wif many good frens around me... my dual personality allows me to mix well wif ppl & also able to enjoy times of solitude ~ indugle in my hobbies & tots, haha! Ok, who else is feeling depressive out there?

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