About Men...The Primative Creatures

Lately had a casual chat wif XL & told her my intention to blog abt MEN! Being my loyal fan...she got so excited & dedicated a short article on her blog abt me, haha! Her blog said, i'm usually the listener & she got so tired of blogging abt men, it's time to hear my views LoL.

Hmm, finished reading the book XL lent me some time ago, titled ''Why Men Love Bitches'', by Sherry Argov. It's probably things that gals know but they failed to look into while in a r/ship. The book had quite a number of practical tips and real-life examples,making it a hilarious read. Well, probably when u 1st see the word ''bitch'', u alreadi have your own defination abt it? Actually, what the author means is the new generation of women should have a mind of our own, be financially independent and we are Not at the beck & call of men.

In my personal opinion, i find that being a woman this day is tougher than our mom's times... Now, u r expected to be a Superwoman, juggling both family & career. Whereas men never really revolved till now! Dating back to the primative times, men had always been the hunters, whereas women work on more collective basis, relying on her ''sisters'' for emotional support. For men, when they get together wif their buddies, usually they will not talk about their inner feelings, as such in event of a failed r/ship, they may have difficulties in healing (but more often than not, they try to conceal).

Gathering from what i had heard from true-life experiences, I realised that gals had a common weakness of being soft-hearted & when in love, tend to fall heads over heels! Yes, i'm truely aware that affairs of the heart is never logical... but i guess E.Q have to play a part too. In case you r not sure wat E.Q is, it means you need to have control of own emotions. I know gals r easily succumbed to depression over a failed r/ship... but hey! that's doesn't means the end of the world. Get up & move on, dun stay in your tortoise shell!

Thankfully, we all have our own girlfrens support group and somehow my frens confide in me abt their r/ship problems. Honestly, i dun quite enjoy being a counsellor to this aspect, cos the jerks r hurting my gfs! If can, either i slap them on behalf of my frens or strangle them! Ya, my imagination again! Ultimately, i believe such ''players'' will get their deserved retribution from God.

In a nutshell, men are bastards...one word '贱' to describe them. I'm not trying to be a feminist here but this is a tested & proven theory that has never change! A few points to note, firstly, dun ever be naive to think you can change them. Secondly, muz have your own Life besides a relationship wif him... cos your gfs are more reliable than men. By having your own activities, will show to him that you can't be there & then whenever he call you up! If he expect to see you immed, ask him go Fly Kite lah! Lastly, the deeper your luv for him, the more hurt you end up wif...so wat's the morale of story? Find a man who's luv you more than you do & be willing to be responsible & luv you for who you are!

Honestly, love is never unconditional in any given r/ship. It only happens within your own family. The man i luv most is still my daddy, haha!